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Toys and Tricks

Updated: Sep 7, 2020

The sexual relationship you have with yourself is just as important as any you have with a partner.

Everyone deserves to have safe and pleasurable sexual experiences. Masturbation is a great way to learn more about yourself, your body, and what feels good to you. Once you understand your own pleasure, you can better communicate to your partner (or partners) what you like and what your boundaries are. Hands and fingers work great, but you can also use toys like vibrators, dildos, sleeves, and many others for both solo and partnered play. In keeping with BusyBox's inclusive mission, the companies we promote here provide gender-fluid and body-safe toys for every body. Check out these incredible companies, give yourself a hand (and grab some lube), and help us close the Pleasure Gap!


Ardentley is a body-safe toy distributor providing a digestible approach on expanding and informing the discovery within identity, wellness, consent, and sexuality. Ardentley believes everyone deserves to feel comfortable in their own body, all while feeling safe in the explorative journey of their sexual enlightenment. Having passion within the discovery of one's pleasure is what Ardentley is all about! Check our their website and follow them on Instagram @shopardentley

Spectrum Boutique

Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive toy store with a no-nonsense approach to sexuality and sexual education. Since Spectrum is geared toward all identities, they avoid gendering their products or telling people how their products are "supposed" to be used - anything in their store can be used by anybody! By being totally transparent about sex, health, and relationships, Spectrum Boutique's hope is that sexuality will become a topic we can discuss without fear or shame. Shop around at, check out their sex ed journal and forum, and follow them on insta @shopspectrumboutique!

Dame Products

Dame Products engineers for sexual wellness by building welcoming community, designing innovative tools, and bringing life-changing education to your bedroom. Shop now at and learn from their insta @dameproducts

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